If You’re Stressing About What to Wear to a Funeral, This List of Outfit Ideas Has You Covered (2024)

You likely wish you didn’t have to click on this story—me too. I’m so sorry for your loss. When mourning, thinking about what to wear to a funeral should be last on your list of concerns, so I’d like to make the process a bit more bearable for you. In this article, you will find outfit inspiration and product suggestions for several ideas of what to wear to a funeral, whether casual or semi-formal. You’ll be relieved to discover that you already have a few of these pieces in your wardrobe (hello, turtlenecks and dark sunnies), but you’ll also be able to shop everything as well, in case you find you’re missing a key staple! Ahead, are some tried-and-true funeral outfits that are appropriate for the occasion. Oh, and no—these picks are more than the typical “all-black” aesthetic. Sending you healing vibes <3.

A Sweater Look

When it comes to funerals, you want no-fuss attire. How about a comfortable sweater dress or maybe even a chunky sweater and midi skirt? You can add some texture with a belt and latex boots.

A Turtleneck + Leather Pants

Keep things simple and sleek with a turtleneck and leather pants. The fierce pairing of combat boots will be a small confidence booster as you prepare to face the day.

Some Sequins

Some funerals are truly a celebration of life, just as they say. If that’s the case, bring out the sequins! If you’re uncomfortable with going full-out, go for dark hues like this blue sequined jacket paired with a gray turtleneck, navy slacks, and a white bag.

A Trench Dress

The chicest idea is wearing a fab trench coat as a dress. That way, if you can’t bother to really dress up, your coat is a total slay all on its own. BTW, it’s always safer to not wear sneakers to an event like this. Go for pumps, mules, loafers, or boots instead!

A Suited Getup

No matter how you’re feeling, you can still show up like a boss and wear a suit.

A Cream Aesthetic

When it comes to funerals, lean into grays, blacks, blues, and, yes, neutrals (even whites). If the family decides to make it an all-white affair, consider going for a stone longline coat or cardigan, white dress, boots, and bag.

A Collared Look

You would look amazing in a collared shirt, a tank-styled dress, and long boots. If you’re a bit worried about the hemline, add some tights and/or a pair of shorts underneath. Don’t forget your shades!

A Tweed Dress

Tip: When it comes to serious occasions, your safest bet is a tweed dress. It’s a classic that makes a sophisticated statement. Add sheer tights and boots or heels to complete the ensemble.

A Denim Set

Yes, a denim set can be appropriate just as long as it’s a dark wash. Put on a pinstriped jacket on top and your attire is taken to new heights. A word of warning though: Most cultures find it disrespectful to wear red to a funeral. Instead, go for a deep wine or burgundy.

A Serious Coat

Jumpsuits are one of the easiest ways to get done up. Want to build on that? Add a fierce coat.

A Pop of Color

If you’d like to honor your loved one with their favorite color, you can! Some funerals even have themes (for example, for my great aunt’s funeral, we all had to wear a touch of purple). Just be sure that what you wear aligns with the family’s wishes. This muted green jacket is a safe option and the perfect touch to this monochromatic moment underneath.